IMPULSES&REACTIONS&UNCONDITIONAL LOVE

There are two possible approaches to a situation or a person: we either respond or we react. Reaction happens when we give in to our impulses, we act on the immediate feeling which is a byproduct of our unprocessed and primitive thought that emerges about the event or the person. For example like "this is unfair" "he is being unfair to me".. First of all there is no universal law that says the situations must be fair or people must be fair to you.. And then this thought pops up a raw emotion which creates the IMPULSE to act on it so eventually we REACT. However response is different than reaction in a way of difference in our thought process stage.. When the primitive thought comes and when we question that thought and put it in a rational filter, when we approach to the issue with a wider perspective and consider all the angles to look at it then our emotions become tamed as well as a result of it and our impulses are calmed down so that we are able to RESPOND in a mature rational and healthy way. So in short: WE RESPOND WITH OUR THOUGHTS, WE REACT WITH OUR EMOTIONS. Think of the last time you approached a stiuation or a person; did you respond or did you react? Master your emotions by questioning your thoughts, questioning your possible cognitive distortions and so be able to take responsibility of your actions as well as yourself in everyway by staying Self-Aware then you set yourself free... ELMIRA 26/12/19

Our thought patterns effect how we feel... Events dont make us feel or people dont make us feel stuff... The way we approach to people and to events determine how we feel.. Our thought patterns effect the way we approach to things, and our beliefs effect our thought patterns so they effect our values as well. We need to question our beliefs if they are actual facts and little adjustments will change our thought patterns to a healthier way will lead the way to healthier feelings.. Always remember there is always an alternative way to approach to look at the events/people so why not try that? Elmira 26/12/19

Once you learn the feeling of unconditional love no matter what happens you can never unlearn it, selfless love is the best feeling that allows personal growth.. Pure love is not about giving, taking, faking, jealousy or sex, it is something tantral and just feeling thankful and innerpeace for no reason except the energies surrounds you, empowering you. It starts to reflect into every part of your life, to the world surrounding you, to all beings surrounding you. Whomever, whatever or so gives you, introduces you to this feeling just be grateful without questioning. People, objects come and go - Past is history but tomorrow always remains a mystery.. - but the gifts they have presented us remains within ourselves, embrace those.Embrace the feelings you are feeling right now, (life is full of surprises and always goes on even without you wanting to be an active participant, it doesnt let you be passive). I am feeling blessed with memories and joy, happiness and being able to feel pure Love which is a bliss and a gift just by on its own let alone its side joys of great memories and serenity and self fulfillment. Elmira 06/11/19

~Euphonious Eternity~

Euphonious Eternity

As much as loving you, I also hated you.

What good does pride do; except for the the loneliness it leaves in you?

I feel obligated to confess to you,

After congratulating you on victory that you

even from "d-day" were very much primed to;

Finally killing the innocent little girl inside my soul's hive 

who was just trying to survive 

in spite of the dark depths she had to dive.

But what's the point of victory,

when  there is a loser that would be left in misery.

I told you I will always care for you

However I'm tired of enabling you.

There's nothing I can do,

Not anymore, stop the voodoo.

Leaving you with the struggles you are going through

I won't be carrying them for you.

But still one last offer I think you better hear;

One day you will eventually be obliged to conquer the fear 

And face&deal with feelings that you can no longer bear

So why not start now dear?

 Oh, you're getting out the room again with full of fear

Running away while trying to hold on to your one precious tear.

I wouldn't have wiped it dear,

would have cherished and protected it however.

I told you "I'm right here"

But I won't be chasing the deer;

I'm no longer near so it's your move dear, my path is clear.

So keep it in your mind:

I might not be there for long

Listen to the song

Words shall not belong to your tongue

It is the heart which is never wrong.

Yet again I might not be where you left me

On the side of the road where you turned your back in order not to see

Now diving deep down under the sea

I already sat myself free

So what is it gonna be?

Euphonious eternity is offering serenity.

~Elmira Kiara~

 

We're One

We're One

No soul shall be left behind

You will see the sign

No need to hide back of the line

We got together to find

The shining sun upon us

From dusk till dawn

Love will cherish in our hearts

Eventually settling down

It can't be bought by any dime

Only shall be acquired by time

Stay synchronized within the vibe,

you,me, and everyone;

We're ONE!...

 

~Elmira Kiara~ 

Angels&Dreams

Angels&Dreams

Angels have the wings

But you have your dreams

Use your dreams as your wings

They will never let you fall

We got together after all

Forming up one divine soul;

Embrace your role

Still be your own goal,

Hear your heart's call...

 

 

 

~Elmira Kiara~